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A lot of problems in a relationship stem from the fact the woman in the relationship give too much credit to the man. The woman think that the man is as intuitive about emotions, feelings and things in general as she is. I’m here to tell you that we are built differently and that men are dense. Men need specifics, and men need directions. Communication is important. Don’t assume that we can guess what you are thinking. When you say that “we should know”, we really don’t. Otherwise, why would you be mad at us in the first place?

So if he did something wrong, tell him.
If he did something right, tell him.
You want this, you don’t like that. You don’t like that person. Why? He doesn’t know, so tell him.
Too slow, too fast, not enough, too much. Right there, no not there. Harder, softer.
Whatever, just tell him.

But hey, only once though. Twice maximum. Because a man is not a child. If he doesn’t learn or listen after you’ve told him more than once, why are you still with him? If you are still with him, then err … you got no excuses.

~ by adneo on Saturday, June 7, 2008.